DiddlyDoDah wrote:I'm still willing to pay someone to set this up for me and let me watch.
How would I use SteamCMD to update it?
The SteamCMD tool will only work of course, if you have a version of ArmA 2 CO purchased through steam.
If that is the case you can simply use the SteamCMD tool to download the required files and keep them up to date (though there is no development for ArmA 2 anymore).
Follow this URL for a tutorial of how to use the SteamCMD tool (it is for Red Orchestra 2, but still valid for ArmA 2 CO if you replace the AppID with ArmA 2 CO's).
http://wiki.tripwireinteractive.com/ind ... ted_Server
I am willing to help you, but I am not setting up the complete server for you, you will have to this work yourself, either by trial and error, or by reading through the numerous tutorials available. In the end, you will also have to run maintenance on the server yourself and Epoch is a bit more demanding in that regard, so I suggest you do some research.